Empowering children to be a part of their own party planning process isn't just fun - it's an opportunity to build life skills. Intentional planning teaches responsibility, nurtures creativity, and boosts self-esteem. Plus, it's a great way to ensure the party is tailored to what they actually enjoy!
Getting Started: The Planning Process
Brainstorming Session: Sit down with your child and let their imagination run wild! Pictures, doodles, vision boards - all of it. What theme excites them? Sports? Crafts? Unicorns? The sky's the limit!
Guest List: Who makes the cut? Let your little one decide, but guide them gently if needed. It's a great opportunity to discuss inclusivity and feelings.
Activities and Programming: What games or activities would they love? Maybe Face Painting or a Hip Hop Dance Party? Or if they prefer something a little more chill, a Canvas Painting Session with light music and snacks.
Timing: What does the day look like? What are we doing first? Kids can get a little overzealous sometimes, but showing them a schedule helps them prioritize what to fit into the allotted time frame.
Food
Kids planning the menu? Absolutely! But don't worry, you won't end up with a pure candy buffet (unless that's what you're going for!). Guide them towards a balance of treats and healthier options. You might be surprised at their choices!
PS. A Candy Bar isn’t a terrible idea, it looks great in photos and can double as party favours.
Decorations
From handmade banners to balloon arrangements, let them express their creativity and build even more excitement for their big day. Get inspo from Pinterest and YouTube. Pro tip: Set a budget to teach a valuable lesson in financial planning.
Remember, the goal isn't perfection - it's participation and fun! Your role is to guide, support, and maybe reign in some of the wilder ideas (sorry, no pet elephants at this party!). By involving your child in the planning process, you're not just throwing a party - you're building capacity, boosting confidence, and developing decision-making skills. Let the festivities begin!
Need a template to get started? You can download and print ours HERE
Our favourite kid-friendly cafes in the city
have a cute little treats and planning date with your little one
Toronto:
Los Angeles:
Vroman’s Bookstore (they have tables upstairs and downstairs)
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